How Managers Can Use Coaching
Skills - Top 7 Skills
Tim Hallbom
(President-NLP and Coaching Institute)
&
Ashley Warrenton Smith
(President, Catalyst Consulting)
We interviewed a sampling of 30 successful managers who ranged from entrepreneurial companies to Fortune 50 and from Chair & CEOs to front line managers. We asked them to identify the challenges they faced in obtaining high performance from direct reports; how they currently coach direct reports to achieve higher performance; what coaching meant to them; whether they had ever been coached and, if so, what worked for them about it; skill sets that managers need to be effective at coaching; and, finally, have most of the managers they worked with had the skill sets they needed to coach effectively.
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Ask high impact questions that draw out the highest and best thinking in your direct reports to help them develop their own answers and move them to action.
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Focus upon what is working rather than to try to “fix problems.”
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Stay focused on the results you want.
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Build rapport & trust – make it safe for reports to speak their minds.
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Hold your direct reports accountable. You get what you expect.
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Listen deeply with your eyes, ears, & heart.
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Model what you desire from your direct reports. Walk your talk.
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These bullet points are from an article we wrote (Summer 2005 edition) for the Journal of Innovative Management. http://www.goalqpc.com
You can reach Tim at www.nlpca.com